Relationships Are Poop

So I met someone that is on the level that I want. He is not on that bullshit like most people I have been with but with him its so complicated. We have been going in on and off circles since we met in like 05 or 06. Anyway I told him that I was tired of the circles and I set down the ground rules. Well due to a "misunderstanding" as he calls it, we went through another circle again. Keepin it 100 like always I want to be with him more than anything but I dont want to be quick to forgive him again because I dont want hime to think that this shit is ok when its not. I just want to know for a fact that its me and him period. But at the same time I dont want to let him go because he is a rare find especially in this area. UGH. All I know is that I just hella want to be with him.